why there are more gays and lesbians in advanced countires,not in developing countries.

The title may sound curious to many, outrageous to some. Yet the fact being as stated in the blog title in interrogative statement. With advancement of free sex among populaltion of each advanced country, there is rampant  and unrestricted sex gratification  going on unabated. With  every single good looking male or female the number of indulgences with opposite sex is exactly proportional to their greed .As there are no moral objections in the society conspicuously, it went on to such excessses that one night stand is perhaps  an old concept.  one feamle with many males at a time, group sex ,wife swabbing what not ?eAs the greed is satisfied limitlessly, on one side, there is denudation of moral standards on the other side.. The belief on the fedility etc  on the opposite sex is at its lowest, and there is absolutely no trust on the fedility of partner. Suspicion is enemy of trust.   Where do trust lives in land of suspicion, and how. When ur past phase of life is filled with innumerable sex events ,when such is your past, how come any body keeps trust  on your future behaviour?  Your past is the glass through which people guage your character. Hence it is v ery unlikely that there will be more percentage of marriages that last  long . Society as such, managed things with prolonged datings, and living with boy or girl friends only to watch their trustworthyness in name and style  of working it out      The system is supplying enough food for the libidos of each sex on the otherhand starving the society with no good number of socially acceptable couples( married)   In the land of naked it is shameful to wear clothes, and when every body is satisfied with sex friendship  why  talk of human values. I shall be shot dead , for I am commenting their outrageous freedom. But, there is a saying  what is said on earth in whispers  is heard in heaven like thunder bolt.For\every unlawful pleasure there is lawful pain. Now, we have a society full of single mothers and fathers, wherein children born to them live with for some time only if not sent out. A convinient social order is de veloped to send away children from homes, early and ask them to behave mature.There are many avenues and vistas discovered  by these , sex hunger people to get rid of their children.   A soceity, which drives away children , a parent hood, who drives away their children very early from home because  they have their urges to gratify. 

A situation was created children started either hating their mothers, and if not their fathers since child hood. They imprinted in their heads hatred towards either motherhood or fatherhood since very early in their lives. They dislike the sight of woman if , they see their mothers who deserted them, vice v ersa with fathers.  A kind of sex  repulsion , on the sex ventures  of these parents , and their selfish living styles.  An inborn urge to live differently than what their parents did . Not to submit to the natural relaltion of man and woman, husband and wife etc is developed. This is making roots into their heads inveterately andindelibly.  It is carried to such extent. When, a single man can continue relationship with whom ever he likes with opposite sex, irrespec tive of social values,  a mutant revolution in the social order developed, and sought to normalise it When former uncivilised behaviour is acceptable why  not this?

When , rampant sex is allowed, why not this kind of other  combination and variation is not allowed. ?  If thousand people did a thing,, whether it is wrong or right , it attains a  kind of acceptability. Now there are two kind of warriors , who violate social order and created chaos in the society, and a separate sect who dislike the very style of relationship which left th them as  helpless   singles  in the society. They do not dub  them as such,  but established, their modern community and claiming right for recognition. This is not there in poor counties, one may probe, in
India or China etc.

decision making

Common sense is uncommon and it tends to be forgotten in the heat of decision making process. Sometimes, though we have abundance of common sense, we ignore it when it stands in the way of doing some thing we dearly want to do.

        We usually cast aside very simple and honest teaching we learned in our child hood when we are required to make a decision.  While making decision, we must follow the following rules namely,

1. Do not be hasty. Snap judgments are unlikely to yield good results because their maker has not been allowed to think things out completely.  There is always certain amount of time permitted to come to decision. Take as much as of it (time) and cover all the bases, in a particular occasion .We must also take second thoughts.
2. Do not take impulsive decisions. In hasty decision we have insufficient deliberation of the situation and in the case of impulsive decision, we have no deliberation at all. Recklessness in decision is glorified in fiction and in movies   and it is a romantic way to act, it is so daring and dashing. But in reality, it is likely the most foolish way to act
3. Do not trust luck. If you leap into a well, providence is not bound to fetch you out, said religious philosopher Thomas fuller. Decision making done on speculation expecting that some thing will turn up in your case, is just plain silly to rely on it.
4. Control your feelings.  Most of the regrettable decisions are made under the spell of the powerful emotions such as anger, hatred ,love , despair, and lust for revenge etc. In such circumstances, impulse masquerades as thought. Compelling feelings are to be recognized and should be removed from mind when decision is being arrived. They will destroy, the acceptability and keeps prudent reasoning at distance.

 

COUNSEL

The best way to escape from the snares of emotion while striving for an objective decision is to go for a counsel. Ask opinion of friends, elders and other persons who are well versed with said topic, which is the burning question with you. When your mind is divided as to course of action, it is wise to take counsel from those we respect. We know that two heads are better than one. Usually we leave some key considerations out of the equation, which other person can identify, at a glance.

 

OTHERS TAKEN AS GRANTED

Never second guess others. Other people have their own opinions, they can not go with our unspoken plans. Never anticipate as how another person acts, unless you have his word for it. Again we have to watch, they are usually at liberty to change their mind at any time.

YES AND NO – KHOW TO SAY IT 

Yes and No, are the shortest words in the world, yet they need more thought than anything, before they are uttered. There is a natural urge, on other people plans, to say yes so that not to hurt them. But No is always the preferable answer, Saying no enables you to revise your decision, but if you say yes, it is difficult to come out. A no is more easily changed than a yes. Anything is so easy to get into than to get out many crucial decisions in life are made, under pressure, by a person   or persons. The iron rule of decision making is to decide what you want to do, not others want to do. We should all cultivate a degree of self resistance. We must always keep a watch on self serving persuasions, hidden agendas and outright lies people place in front of us, and ask for our participation.

 SOCIAL PRESSURES

Some times we face not individual pressures but social pressures, to do certain things. It is solid principle never make a decision, because others / every body   is doing.

Trends of the world may not be fit in your individual case many times, and do not jump because every body else is jumping. The false prospect of certainty is what encourages people to  put in their efforts into trial. The sure feeling of what will happen next is most dangerous feeling, we ever entertain in life.

The common theme that runs through this cautionary note is the avoidance of wishful thinking. Persistently over optimistic fore casts, defied reality in many cases. It is important to know how to unmake a decision, as how to make a decision. To back away from your original position is the challenging decision of all

 

PRIDE

Pride the demon in most cases, which prevents people doing obviously, sensible things by admitting their failures. Many times, people will stick to their wrong course of action, only to save their face, in spite of the set backs they SUFFER in name of pride and vanity

CONSENSUS

                There are another set of decisions we make in this life which are made by us, in normal course, they are consensus decisions. Decisions we arrive collectively with others. When proposal clearly demonstrates the potential of back firing it is time to speak out, at the risk of going against the popular wisdom or offending a colleague. Soon people will notice the worthiness of it.

Our capacity to make self deceptive decisions should not be underestimated. It is to self deceive without perceiving. It is easy to deceive others, without them perceiving it.  The seeds of self deception lie deep in our individual personalities. We are susceptible to thinking with our own prejudices, hang-ups and hopes rather than our brains.  It is not only a matter of psychology, but a product of faulty logic. 

One must be beware of fallacious propositions which deceive us believing into, what merely appears to be true is actually true. In this connection, one example is generalizations.  We usually brand certain racial people, saying that they are all alike. It is a prelude so dangerous, in employing a worker. There is no production line for decisions. Each refers to a case itself, replete with special conditions.     There fore each decision should be tailor made. 

After reading all this one may be afraid to make a decision, and will be vacillating Whether or not to make decision. Avoidance of decisions is more perilous than making a decision even with some faults. To refuse to do any thing even at the risk of falling could be the worst decision you will ever make.

Today society has no ethical norms, and we are prone to make decisions, though there is dishonesty in it. We look for our safety first before we arrive to a decision. In a road accident, even when we were nearby, we do not actively involve our self in going to the rescue of the injured, fearing some legal complications. In fact, it is our duty, to attend him. Here dishonesty in our decision making is stronger, than our moral considerations. We always look around for a easy way out.

 Finally, the acid test of decision making is whether you can live with it in the long run?  If you can face, yourself in mirror that you are right in making that decision, than you have done it correct. 

Common sense is uncommon and it tends to be forgotten in the heat of decision making process. Sometimes, though we have abundance of common sense, we ignore it when it stands in the way of doing some thing we dearly want to do.

        We usually cast aside very simple and honest teaching we learned in our child hood when we are required to make a decision.  While making decision, we must follow the following rules namely,

1. Do not be hasty. Snap judgments are unlikely to yield good results because their maker has not been allowed to think things out completely.  There is always certain amount of time permitted to come to decision. Take as much as of it (time) and cover all the bases, in a particular occasion .We must also take second thoughts.
2. Do not take impulsive decisions. In hasty decision we have insufficient deliberation of the situation and in the case of impulsive decision, we have no deliberation at all. Recklessness in decision is glorified in fiction and in movies   and it is a romantic way to act, it is so daring and dashing. But in reality, it is likely the most foolish way to act
3. Do not trust luck. If you leap into a well, providence is not bound to fetch you out, said religious philosopher Thomas fuller. Decision making done on speculation expecting that some thing will turn up in your case, is just plain silly to rely on it.
4. Control your feelings.  Most of the regrettable decisions are made under the spell of the powerful emotions such as anger, hatred ,love , despair, and lust for revenge etc. In such circumstances, impulse masquerades as thought. Compelling feelings are to be recognized and should be removed from mind when decision is being arrived. They will destroy, the acceptability and keeps prudent reasoning at distance.

 

COUNSEL

The best way to escape from the snares of emotion while striving for an objective decision is to go for a counsel. Ask opinion of friends, elders and other persons who are well versed with said topic, which is the burning question with you. When your mind is divided as to course of action, it is wise to take counsel from those we respect. We know that two heads are better than one. Usually we leave some key considerations out of the equation, which other person can identify, at a glance.

 

OTHERS TAKEN AS GRANTED

Never second guess others. Other people have their own opinions, they can not go with our unspoken plans. Never anticipate as how another person acts, unless you have his word for it. Again we have to watch, they are usually at liberty to change their mind at any time.

YES AND NO – KHOW TO SAY IT 

Yes and No, are the shortest words in the world, yet they need more thought than anything, before they are uttered. There is a natural urge, on other people plans, to say yes so that not to hurt them. But No is always the preferable answer, Saying no enables you to revise your decision, but if you say yes, it is difficult to come out. A no is more easily changed than a yes. Anything is so easy to get into than to get out many crucial decisions in life are made, under pressure, by a person   or persons. The iron rule of decision making is to decide what you want to do, not others want to do. We should all cultivate a degree of self resistance. We must always keep a watch on self serving persuasions, hidden agendas and outright lies people place in front of us, and ask for our participation.

 SOCIAL PRESSURES

Some times we face not individual pressures but social pressures, to do certain things. It is solid principle never make a decision, because others / every body   is doing.

Trends of the world may not be fit in your individual case many times, and do not jump because every body else is jumping. The false prospect of certainty is what encourages people to  put in their efforts into trial. The sure feeling of what will happen next is most dangerous feeling, we ever entertain in life.

The common theme that runs through this cautionary note is the avoidance of wishful thinking. Persistently over optimistic fore casts, defied reality in many cases. It is important to know how to unmake a decision, as how to make a decision. To back away from your original position is the challenging decision of all

 

PRIDE

Pride the demon in most cases, which prevents people doing obviously, sensible things by admitting their failures. Many times, people will stick to their wrong course of action, only to save their face, in spite of the set backs they SUFFER in name of pride and vanity

CONSENSUS

                There are another set of decisions we make in this life which are made by us, in normal course, they are consensus decisions. Decisions we arrive collectively with others. When proposal clearly demonstrates the potential of back firing it is time to speak out, at the risk of going against the popular wisdom or offending a colleague. Soon people will notice the worthiness of it.

Our capacity to make self deceptive decisions should not be underestimated. It is to self deceive without perceiving. It is easy to deceive others, without them perceiving it.  The seeds of self deception lie deep in our individual personalities. We are susceptible to thinking with our own prejudices, hang-ups and hopes rather than our brains.  It is not only a matter of psychology, but a product of faulty logic. 

One must be beware of fallacious propositions which deceive us believing into, what merely appears to be true is actually true. In this connection, one example is generalizations.  We usually brand certain racial people, saying that they are all alike. It is a prelude so dangerous, in employing a worker. There is no production line for decisions. Each refers to a case itself, replete with special conditions.     There fore each decision should be tailor made. 

After reading all this one may be afraid to make a decision, and will be vacillating Whether or not to make decision. Avoidance of decisions is more perilous than making a decision even with some faults. To refuse to do any thing even at the risk of falling could be the worst decision you will ever make.

Today society has no ethical norms, and we are prone to make decisions, though there is dishonesty in it. We look for our safety first before we arrive to a decision. In a road accident, even when we were nearby, we do not actively involve our self in going to the rescue of the injured, fearing some legal complications. In fact, it is our duty, to attend him. Here dishonesty in our decision making is stronger, than our moral considerations. We always look around for a easy way out.

 Finally, the acid test of decision making is whether you can live with it in the long run?  If you can face, yourself in mirror that you are right in making that decision, than you have done it correct.

why it is 5 with every human being

If one watches closely human beings, an intersting  feature is revealed uniformly with every human being. He is made with limbs, containing only five fingers. ie  No 5 is imprinted on them on many places ie two hands ,two legs  and his senses are five. These are visible and easily conceivable uniformily applied  signs on all human beings  , and question is why it is only 5.  Why it is not sixor seven etc and why there is no variation. There is  a clear message that, universe is made, with 5, hence, it is printed on you and me,depicting the very formula of life and universe which is intermixed.You are prepared from the materials of the universe ie fire, water, air, earth and sky. When , you are prepared with the 5, this print is made on your body, in several ways and forms ,only to give you glimpse of his intentions. Read them with mind  sensible. Insensible minds , always comeout with insensible answers.

It is with these elements God rules the universe. They are the witnesses of all human actions. A crime can be committed unseen by huamn souls. but, there is circumstantial evidence. it is based on, things left there, which in turn are materials of universe.  they speak the crime,in more certain form, than mortalsby which the criminal  is caught and pusnished. Is it not , materials of universe that spoke their evidence to pusnish the guilt.

The very purpose of lord is administration of justice ie punish the bad, and reward the good. He does it with the help of  5

When, you inhale air, which is impure, you get swineflu, if not influenza etc, If you eat food  in excess you get obesity related deseases cautioning not to eat(plant food is a product of earth, sun and oxygen etc) and animals are dependants on plant food. There are water borne decseases , we know. Aurveda is scienc e of health, in which body heat is the main constituent to diagnosis where  heat is the reason for desease. 

It is said and persceived by every suffering soul, that deseases are taxes on our sins and or not  deseases are  punishemnts sent , for your undoings. Is not some thing inside you capable of understanding it with mind’s eye 

Long time back, a great surgoen, while operating a by-pass surgery, in a critical case of cardiac patient,  reportedy uttered before he took up operation saying, “He does not  know when his skill on the operation table stops and His  ( God) skill begins   ie during operation /as everything is left to devine at that time . We are all testimony, in such cases , where they undertake the signature of patient, to take his willingness for operation, which they know may not succeed oftentimes.

How many number of atheists, who got them operated in such way  did remind the non existing god, when they underwent the operation – they only know.

Atheist usually ask, where is the God, and what is he doing. He is busy,preparing honey to bees in trillions and trillions of flowers for the on coming dawn, he is busy preparing to fill milk in countless udders for their offspring on the following mornking, he is busy growing pastures incessantly for the limitless fauna.  he is protecting the babies from falling on the styles, protecting  calves from hynaes , sailors in sea from turbulent winds. He is hearing the  prayers of sincere fans, to wriggle them out their current troubles, he is busy forgiving many such useless souls who criticise him with their immature tiny heads.

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DESIRE TO POSSES A THING OF LUST IS NOT LOVE

YOUR GREATNESS IS MEASURED BY YOUR KINDNESS,

 YOUR EDUCATION IS MEASURED    BY YOUR MODESTY,

AND YOUR INTELLIGENCE IS MEASURED BY YOUR TOLERNACE.  

BUT LOVE WHICH EVERY STUPID MAN TRYS TO SPEAK IS

VERY MUCH OTHER WISE

YOUR LOVE IS MEASURED BY YOUR SACRIFICE.

SACRIFICE IS ACT OF GIVING EXPECTING NOTHING IN RETURN.

IT MAY BE YOUR MONEY, YOUR TIME, YOUR LIFE  .

More the intensity;  more the quality of love.

It is not spinning of legs and pressing of lips against one another.

IT IS NOT DANCING TOGETHER ON  DAZZLED FLOORS

NOR  COUNTED BY NUMBER OF ORGASMS YOU HAD

UNLESS THE HEART HAS QUALITY OF BEING KIND AND

THANKFUL AT EVERY STAGE WITH ACCOMPANIED HEART BEAT

Unless it has the feeling of forgiveness to absorb even  betrayal

THAT COME TIME TO TIME TO TEST IT,IT IS NO LOVE.

IF IT DOES NOT FEEL GRATTIDUE TO LITTLE ACTS OF HELP RECEIVED

with delicate vibrations and  finest feelings YOU CAN CALL IT LOVE

IT IS SILKEN THREAD  not IRON ROPE

A MICRO FEELING OF HEART DELICATE

Every heart is not equipped  and qualified to  love.

LOVE IS NOT IN EVERY BREAST

WOLVES NEVER ENJOY RAINBOWS

CROCODILES NEVER ENTERTAIN jasmine FUMES.

LIONS SELDOM  like  to   CHEW FLOWERS

or glittering diamonds ever pleased swines

  we knew BUTTER FLIES  scarcely SIPPED  drops of BLOOD 

Love  IS RAREST POSSESION OF NOBLEST SOUL

ALL HUMAN BEINGS ARE NOT CAPABLE  TO IT 

 MEAN MINDS LIKE THINGS IN SHORT INTERVALS.

 THEY always LEAVE THEM, WHEN NOT  USEFUL

DESIRE TO POSESS A THING OF LUST IS NOT LOVE

LOVE FORGIVES CRIMES AND PARDONS MISTAKES

MOST OF THE TIME IT LIVES IN MOTHER’S HEART

REST OF THE TIME , WITHIN  MAN OF CHARACTER 

A devine wave that connects and crosses angelic hearts rarely but surely

Dust you go , from dust you come

 I  once read some where, about the life of a human being. It is compared to a lonely boat floating on the great surface of limitless ocean, and all the water is ready to enter, any time and all times once a hole is made.A single hole makes, lot of difference, and if it is manyholes see how quickly it sinks. How man must hold against the evils on athe face of earth limitless and  all are ready to enter him once , he shows a weakness like hole in the boat

 In our life, all the temptations are waiting around a human being, all the time, and everytime till he is sucked into them completely. It is same with a boat and man. did not we always watch greatest shilps  sunk though smallest holes.  All the time, every time, world is preparing for yourself a fall.     It is you, who must withhold.

 In this context, like water to the boat, dust is symbolic to human beings, explaining that it would engulf you, unless you are on guard.  It is standing infront of you and every thing on the surface of earth to embrace, entangle and engulf.Dust for instance is invisible , and omnipresent. It attacks in various forms. Keep a house locked for some days,and return back. You will find the house filled with dust. You have to clean for days. Anything, your ship , your car, your bike,every visible thing on earth , it is or will be filled with dust, soon if it is ignored.  Take for instance , your body, can you leave your eyes, uncleaned  one day, it is filled with dirt(secretion of dust), you mouth, your nose,  your ears  and every corner and nook of your body is about to be filled or covered with dirt ,if not dust the moment you ignore it .    This is meachinism of processing of dust  into  nature   and how it is made , it is dust all the time and everytime. If you neglect it , it will soon engulf you. Watch a wound, cut, or incision, if you neglect , dust enters in the form of infection. Dust is waiting on this earth, the satan form, which devours you into it. God made this world with dust , and turns everything into dust finally. All living things once  they loose life turns into dust, through process of decomposition, which is nothing but , transformation mechanism  of things getting turned into dust.  Not long after wards, Alexander , the greatest emperor ever born on the face of earth turned into dust, as everybody finally must, it is was samething on this earth once again, as nothing ever happened on it    L ife went on as usual 

Few hearts are made with delicate stuff.

All hearts not made with same delicate stuff.

Unless Gratitude, tenderness  kindness and mercy are present

It is not qualified  to love and all can not love

 Did ever vulture turned into dove 

A Butterfly  can  be delicate  not  a spider

Cactus can never emit jasmine’s fragrance

Love made with a special substance 

All can enjoy love but can not love.

Watch judy’s court, and  hear Alex court judge comments

Visit judge Perri pemises

Swarming with devils who promised love

Where  gone  all oaths of love, it ‘s promises ’

Whispers made in starlit darkness 

oaths solemnly made and  written ,  blood  as ink.

Dreams woven with colourful  beams

 Why Love loses  its hold, when it turned old.

That Sweetheart is now  hot , those  honey lips taste bitter.

Darling  sweetest   long back  became boring,

 Sighs and moans ,   ecstacys and joys  now  all end in smoke

 Moonrides, beachwalks ,twiilight dinners  went to vansih in one stroke

Foolishbrain soon forgets and seldom forgives

If  your   heart is really that  great , Can it forget ?

Those blissful moments, embraces and kisses

Such fondness  and sweetness sensed all the time

All  hearts are not made with same stuff

 O’ Pigs trying to dance like peacock

 Frogs trying to mimic  and  swim like swans

Excaliber does not glow in robberer’s hand

 A  rose from a cheater’s hand is no gift

It needs a great heart to love

All hearts are not made to hold the  delicate stuff .thy name love.

Leader should change the society.

No follower ever walked ahead of his leader.  Leader carries the thinking of the society, in his actions. People only contribute him with their aknowledgement both open and implied. Unless, we have leaders with vision, the society suffers. No single individual  in the society tries to help societyunless he develops moral values.  It is learnt through reesearch, that even most educated and responsible citizens in the world lack empathy. (helping mind)Once upon, a time, a King who wanted to examine and analyse human nature, in his kingdom, went personally to the outskirts of his capital. He placed a big bolulder on the road intentionally in such way that it was putting moving traffic of vehicles into stress. The vehicles had to negotiate  a take steep curve, running side wards and must pass the boulder.It was really stressful, and troublesome to pass that way. How ever king placed a bundle of costly jems underneath, the boulder to be taken by the person, who tries to move the boulder to help the traffic. To his amazement none, tried to remove boulder.

This is the nature of all human beings. ( few exceptions will not make the rule)They can be lead, but they never lead. They are known for their receiving ,never for their giving.  Leader must visualise, as to what to be done to the society. In the course of so doing there may be some displeasing, and unpleaant situations, but they must  be introdued with  wisdom. Imposing  of policy of one child  in China , compulsory education in Thailand , conscription earlier in Us etc   were certain  steps which were introduced with determination

Ghandhi is killed for preaching non voilence, Abrham Lincoln for his peace, Jesus christ for his Love, and millions others, were so killed unreported. HAVE  we  SEEN   Tschengis kahn, killed by his follower, nor Hitler in that way . People practice distroying good men, for they never pay them back with vengenace. At large people are afraid, when strict laws are passed. They know their importance. They are not ready to deprive themselves the present advantages  for the sake of future gain. The leader is the person with whom, people kept their trust to take them and the society to a better place and to a better state.When the chemistry of society is infected with mutations of desires , and when the social fabric  is distroyed in the name of over liberty and indpendence , it is leader who should undertake the respsonsibility of controling  the people and society at large. In the name of secularism, etc, he should not allow allowance to some and none to others.

Just like. contaminated water is harmful to all religion people. so is the case with  social desease carried inside,  and leader  should not fail to  hear the inner voice, and  he is made leader by Lord not for anything. He , has a mission, help of lord will follow him like shadow.  The devine rule is same everywhere  overearting is chief reason, for scores of deseases. God asked  you to eat, but not to over eat. See the , society  now a days, everybody is obese, due to over eating  and God did not leave them for they belonged to some religion. Every unlawful pleasure will have lawful pain. If  we get sick , by overeating, you must get well by overfasting. Universal forces are always at work to get you the deserving results of our actions. No sin escaped punishment,no good deed went unrewarded.

It is only  lack of attention and understanding that make us, fail to see them.

Unfaithful husb ands and unfaithful wives, culture of no marriage, culture of keeping boy and girl friends, has distroyed  the social fabric beyond repair.  and  Moral  frame ,essential  huamn values and  vitals of the society were eaten up, and it is now left with a problem how to solve it, who to solve it.  who should do it, if not the leader.  Willful blindness, wishful thinking, voluntary ignorance, and illusion are guiding principles of mankind.People only think everything in terms of themselves.Leader should know  what they need.and  should interfere here , and see that the foundations of change has to be laid down with his hands, in his time, permanently.  How it works, is God s will and  forces of nature will help. By  this time, every great man who became great knows that, he is drifted  to present status, with some unseen hand  . Was  it not lord.s gesture to create a desease(HIV) with no medication as a befitting answer to the current daysenseless  sex trends.  MANY SUCH THINGS HAPPENED, HAPPENING, AND WIILL HAPPEN. MILLS OF LORD GRIND SLOWLY BUT SURELY 

WHAT STOPS A LEADER TO INTRODUCE COMPULSORY MORAL EDUCTION, IN ALL SCHOOLS.

WHAT STOPS  him TO BRING DOWN ENACTMENT TO COMPULSORY EDUCATION ( becoming skilled laboufr etc. )TO ALL CITIZENS. WHAT STOPS HIM TO REVISE CULTURAL HERITAGE, WHICH IS HIDDEN WEALTH OF THEIR, COUNTRY”S PAST. WHY NOT TO ENCOURAGE, DESIRED BEHAVIOUR FROM CITIZENS  most of the time with the help of eanactements  and WITH SUCH LIMITATIONS,

The only thing that stops a leader to all these things, is his desire to live in the post permenantly, who failed his mission.

PEOPLE SHOUJLD NOT BE KEPT TO ACT VOLUNTARILY.  FOR  FOR EVERY SING GLE PERSON WHO IS STRIVING  at SOME BODY TO TAKE   him TO CHURCH, THERE ARE  1000 PERSONS  WHO ARE WORKING HARD TO TAKE THEIR FRIENDS  TO NIGHT CLUBS.  THAT IS THE COMPOSITION OF THE SOCIETY From  THE DATE OF BIRTH OF EARTH .  EOPLE LOVE  mankind POSTHUMOUSLTYonly and leader should learn it. He may be parting his heart to people to satisfy them, but still wonders when they ask him his kidneys also. . that is how society is made and permanently kept asking. People never appear to appreciate , but leader should understand.  WHEN , CHRIST IS BORN, TO  VIRGIN MARY, HOW MANY REALLY REJOICED IT AS GREAT EVENT. MOST OF THEM ,IF NOT ALL OF THEM,Might HAVE SPREAD RUMORS OTHERWISE. PEOPLE SHOULD NOT BE TAKEN  TO DIRECT , THEY ARE THERE TO FOLLOW.LEADER WHO CAME HERE, WITH THE HELPING HAND OF LORD, SHALL DECIDE AND DETERMINE , soceity’s   REQUIREMENTS AND UNDERTAKE  IT UPON HIMSELF. IT IS WHAT AMERICAN PRESIDENT SHOULD DO, AND OTHER LEADERS AT THE HELM OF AFFAIRS IN THEIR RESPECTIV E COUNTIRES SHOULD DO.Echos of objections, furores of oppositions, and flood of criticism from media are only passing winds, that will never swerve the hill of determination of the leader.  Leader  is and has the sanc tion of the lord, and he is made so, invincible at least for some time.  and how much time it depends.

world is groaning with envy

most merited is most envied. world us a place where envy is flowing like wind and water. This is not usually seen or felt by people,when they are in the early age of life.  Soon world starts  unfolding. You will understand it,in your own house. Your brothers and sisters soon be wildered at u and your progress. Apparent praises abound  u inward bleeding continues. There may be, several developments, which surprise u. Next comes friends circle and this is a place, where envy is exhibited at its most. Your most friends are those, who are sad at your uprising ad glad at your down fails. I can write books on this. Society is third, it is in the connstant process of discouraing you. Every attempt is kept in your way to stumble.  If envy is fever world is groaning with fever.

How u make, in this world is your understanding.  The best way , in my idea is never show up,openly , it saves lot of troubles. Appear on  par with them people love u. Nobody likes any body better than himself said my friend. If you let people excel u, they pity you, if you let yourself excel them , they envy you. This is rule position. There are exceptions of good hearted people , found now and then like black swans in  Himalayas,who do not matter much. Good people usually does nothing. They are good, for good for nothing.   Friends are sleeping but enemies  are watching. Once, you have grown in life,all the less grownups are  your enemies, with whom  you have to deal. Read story of  Monte cristo, a perfect example of behaviour of mankind. They harm  u for you being good.  Envy a greatest character man should be aware and alert himself all his life time,which parents should keep informing children and teachers should teach students from day 1 of their life  .They should learn, it is waiting for them, in several forms, at every rise they make in life . Envy is there, in every individual heart. 

How ever, mediocrity is there  with every body, but envy we have to earn.  If people are being envious, it deos explain that u are doing well.

command them never beg them, ie people.

     This is really a crazy world, where in people expect returns for all the good deeds they accomplished .  The rule position on earth, is that people are ingrateful, and unyeilding. They are rebelling if it be , with in their reach, and comment every thing on the face of  earth. They want to criticise, that sun rays are not that bright, moon is not that soothing, They mistake  as to  the flow of Niagara water falls. Himalayas also they want to make certain changes, regarding its ice melting during summer if they are permitted.  There is not a single field, on this earth they are not sarcastic and leave    uncommented.  Pretence is their real nature. Ungrateful ness is their instint

If u have anything with people , it is better to tel l them with a command( if u have that position) it always works. Never pursuade them. Most people carry with them only one thing for certain, ie empty heads. I shall try to reason it with a simple example.  Government wants trees, to be grown every where for the sake of environmental protection. Everyboy, every sane head on this earth knows the fact. Who does very little individually. Nobody takes any interest. Govt spends  on advertisement in crores of rupees in vain. People at large are being asked, appealed and cajoled all the time to grow trees, The response is on the other hand , negative.  Many trees are cut, instead with immunity. Unpunished warnings are jokes to mankind.  Let   us for sometime, assume tht Govt has enacted a law in the direction that if a certain house owner does not grow shade bearing and fruit yeilding trees minimum of two, in his cmpound , he shall have to pay double to existing tax. Let  it be warned that his water connection will be removed unless he show the growin g trees .  Let a police officer , who is incharge of police st, show a minimum of  10 trees grown up, in the premises of police station or elsewhere, and his men a minimum of 5 trees each , in the following two years , failing which his promotion list is with held. The road and b uilding enginer should not fail to grow trees on the road side, in his jurisdiction a minimum of 300 to his post and his staff  200  each. A revenue official  200 plants by law. Every responsible employee should putin certain numbers. Students who did not grow a certain number of trees, before they apply collegge seats are disqualified.  Masters who does not take up class, and directedtheir students are kept promotionless .  Let the polic y of trees be changed. Your  state will be soon garden like.   If u , pursuade them for a long time, life time , infinitively , they do not hear. ( I typed this idea, at 3 am on a defective computer , any mistakes , be myself   forgiven )   Donot beg people, they will not hear You, and order them usually they obey you.

Try this, and Govt will achieve success. Tail flash, unpunished warning are jokes. to mankind, if govt does not take stringent steps  again my suggestion is a joke

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